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Spending Time With Family Is So Important Especially At Thanksgiving

We have been busy with family and enjoying every minute of it. My youngest son turned 50 this past week. He was gracious enough to drive to us so that we didn’t have to drive an hour and a half each way in the dark. We met them at the NY Beer Project for a celebration dinner. That is where my son wanted to go. We had some new beers we hadn’t tried before and delicious appetizers and entrees. The service was phenomenal.

After dinner he and his wife went home to watch the Buffalo Bills game. We brought West home with us. That gave them a few days of staycation. We have enjoyed West’s company. He is so tall now and is in 10th grade. We had a wonderful chat about the AP courses he is taking and all the other ones. I can’t believe that he will be 16 in January. He will be getting his learner’s permit so his parents can teach him to drive.

Let me tell you about what he did for me on Friday. My freezer had really built up some ice. Probably from it being open that time I spoke about. I always empty and clean the freezer myself. It usually takes me an entire afternoon. I asked West if he would help me empty it and get all of the ice out. Everything needed organizing too because while I was dealing with heart issues, things just got thrown in there. It was a mess! He was happy to help me. When it was all done, he told me it was fun. I joked with him that it will need it again in 6 months. He said he would be happy to do it again.

He emptied everything into disposable grocery bags by category as he took them out of the freezer. I went through each bag and checked dates so that the oldest are on top and will get eaten first. We only had to throw out a couple of meat items that had become freezer burned and were from 2020. How I missed them when I have cleaned the freezer before is beyond me.

After it was empty, he left me sitting in a chair to continue my organizing into bags. He had unplugged the freezer before be started emptying it so the ice had begun to thaw. He got all of the ice off all of the walls with a blow dryer and plastic wallpaper scraper. He used a bucket to dispose of all the ice and water. Then he used some heavy old towels to dry it really well. Next, he put most of the turkeys that we would not use at Thanksgiving in the bottom of the freezer. He then put the bags in where I could easily find things and plugged the freezer back in. We had a lot more chicken and beef than I thought. We also have plenty of pork, a bit of salmon, shrimp and haddock. We will continue to eat from this stockpile until all the meat is gone. Then we will restock it as we see really great rock bottom prices. I think Camillo’s is where I will probably get most of my meat when I do a restock. I was amazed at how little time it took us. In one and a half hours, the freezer was all done. He also broke down many cardboard boxes that were stacked in the pantry and took them to the recyclable can. He was such a big help! I did thank him and gave him some cash that he did not expect. I told him it is for his gasoline fund when he starts to drive.

West loves fish so we ordered fish fries with French fries for dinner from Chiavetta’s on Friday night. He liked it but we were very disappointed. The fish fries are now half the size they were last year and have gone way up in price. The fish fries were mushy and the French fries were cold. We will be looking for a different place to get good fish fries especially starting Fat Tuesday.

Last night I cooked us hamburgers with everyone’s choice of cheese, onions, and mushrooms. I do not like ketchup so I put a slice of fresh tomato on mine. Dessert which was eaten later in the evening was Ben and Jerry’s ice cream for two of us. I was too full from dinner to eat any.

It is now Sunday morning and my son will be coming out to pick up West today. He is coming early enough so that he can do a few things for Hubby. We are grateful.

When they leave I will be starting to get food ready for Thanksgiving. I think the turkey has to go in the fridge today. We have family coming to enjoy the holiday with us and stay this week. I am very excited because I have not seen them since last December.

All that said, I will be enjoying my time with them because it could be another year before I see them again. So I won’t be back on here until the Monday after Thanksgiving. Then we will do some more grocery savings for 2026 series posts and start talking about 2026 Budgets. Until then, you guys have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Enjoy your time with family.

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Happy Mother’s Day Tomorrow

I hope you all have a fantastic day! We will be enjoying the day by cooking filet mignon on the grill. That is my favorite meal!

I wish I could be on here more often but my sciatica has been horrid the past month or so. It hurts to sit and stand. Advil is not working for me. So I have been doing a lot of reading lately laying down. I am trying to work through frugality books that I have read before. A special online friend and her husband are coming to visit again this summer. I am making a pile of the books as I read them to see if there are any she would like to take home with her before I donate them to our local library.

Hopefully the pain will go away soon. I have been doing exercises to try to get that to happen. You all know how active I am, so I am hating this! I seriously thought about ending my blog. But if you will be patient, I will continue it when I can and be back to normal soon. Prayers if you are a praying person. I would really appreciate those.

But we have been as frugal as we can right now. I am working on a # of problems. It looks like Mint Mobile is not billing us correctly and QVC put someone else’s charge on our bill. So hopefully I will have that all straightened out this coming week. The one time I went out two weeks ago, I lost my credit card. No one had used it. But I cancelled it and they say it will take 2 weeks for another to arrive. Fortunately, I have another one to use. I did not realize that I had lost it until I went to pay $ 402. for my dental cleaning and X rays at the dentist. That was a week later. I gave the dentist my denture to repair. I had a tooth pop out of it a while ago. But I have a spare, so I waited for my appointment to bring it in to him. The repair will cost $276. when I go to pick it up. UGH!

The other bad thing that affected us this week is Rite Aid is going out of business. So we have been switching every prescription to a new pharmacy. Second time we have had to do this in just a few months. What a pain!

Hubby and I went to our appointment to see the town assessor two weeks ago to dispute the $33,000. raise in our assessment for our home. They had raised us tentatively from $ 470,000. to $503, 000. The assessor agreed with us and they are leaving our assessment at $470,000. We have a letter to show that. We had to sign it and get it back to them. I did that the same day it came in the mail. Of course, we made a copy of it. Also we have qualified finally for a reduction of our assessment because we are old for the school taxes. We have been paying full school taxes since we moved here. So our assessment for school taxes only will be $ 383,900. Needless to say until we get the tax bills I won’t know what we will actually save. But I am happy about all of this!

We have barely had any sales on decent meat in my grocery or warehouse stores. Especially on beef and chicken. So we are working on eating the chicken in our freezers. However last week, Niagara Produce had cowboy steaks on sale for $13.49 a lb. Not a great price but since we have been doing very little shopping, we had money saved up from our grocery budget. I bought 6 for $ 168.00. That will give us some beef to grill along with the filet mignons and strip steaks that we already had. This should give us plenty of beef for the summer. However, I am always looking for those sales.

During the Walmart + benefit week, I was able to fill up our car at $.50 off a gallon. I was also able to get a Free Express order and not pay the extra $10.00 for it. I also used the scan and go and spent $15. on stock up items to get $5.00 Cash back.

We were able to save $4,000. for the month of April. We are slowly getting to our goal. We spent landscaping money to the tune of $1700. which was an extra expense.

That is about it for now. What have you done frugally the past 2 weeks?

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Enjoy Your Holiday Weekend And A Few More Cost Cutters

The first thing I did this morning when I got up was open the blinds and shades on the windows that did not have sun directly on them. I open and shut them as the sun is on them. No lights are on here. I noticed when I did this that our sprinkler system is on this morning. Hubby has it on a timer to come on certain days and we always water the grass in the early morning. You do not want to water in the heat of the day. But I am keeping an eye on it because we might have rain coming. If that happens, I will manually shut it down.

Next I made my coffee in my reusable K cup. We have not had liquid Coffeemate flavored creamer in our coffee in a while. A few weeks ago on a sale I picked up some Amaretto. It just doesn’t taste as good as it used to years ago. But I will not waste it nor will I buy it again. Half and half is so much better.

I ate Steak Umms with a hard boiled egg for brunch. Hubby had a small amount of his steak leftover from last night so he cooked that up for him with his egg. I have bacon and some breakfast sausage thawed but I don’t know yet if my son and West are coming this weekend. If they do I will use it then.

Then it was time for my navy shower. I have been using up an old Johnson’s Baby Shampoo for washing my hair. I got dressed but I no longer use makeup unless we have company or I am going somewhere. It has gotten so expensive and the deal I got quite a while ago for CoverGirl Ageless foundation for $ 3.00 a bottle is almost gone.

Last night before we went to bed we put some Green Gobbler Drain Clog Dissolver down our kitchen and bathroom drains. It sits overnight and then we run a little water down it in the morning. Ever since we have been doing this every other month, we have not had any clogs. It is a lot cheaper than calling Roto Rooter. I am now out so I ordered a gallon at Walmart. They have the cheapest price at $ 18.82+ tax. But this time I ordered their mainline one because it is safe for toilets too and will keep them clog free. I got free shipping and since they have it at my store, they will deliver it later today. I switch from one to the other about once every 6 months.

This morning Hubby made some changes in our bathroom and kitchen sinks. I have been complaining that they seem to have less water pressure coming out. I didn’t know if was the town water system doing it or what. So Hubby took the drain part off of each faucet. Inside of them they have one or two very tiny rubber washers. He removed those. He said he should have done that many years ago. Now all the drains are perfect.

This morning I will be finishing the pantry I didn’t get fully done yesterday. Then I will be working on my photo albums for my sons. I have so many pictures from when they were growing up and I want to divide them up between them. I know that they will most likely scan them into their computers but that is fine.

Then I think Hubby and I will just relax for the rest of the day.

Dinner tonight will be ground bison burgers with tomato and onions.

I hope all of you have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend. Ours will be peaceful.

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Happy Thanksgiving to all of you!

I hope that you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving tomorrow. There will be just the two of us! It is going to be so weird from other Thanksgivings but we will make the best of it. I am roasting a 20 lb. turkey and we will eat it until we are sick of it. Then the rest will go into the freezer. Me, I am looking forward to turkey soup.

I have to apologize to all of you who left comments the past few days. I got a new computer and we have spent most of this week trying to get everything transferred over from the old one. It would have been easy if I wanted to transfer everything but I didn’t. So I had to go look at everything and decide whether to save it to transfer or delete it. Pictures needed some organizing too. It was a lot of work. It is finally done. And I am glad because I was so tired of working on it. So I finally posted and replied to your comments tonight.

We also noticed that not all of my pictures transferred over from blogspot. I am going to try to recover them little by little.

Well I am off to chop up the onion and celery that I need for my sausage stuffing that I will make in the morning. I hope you all have a good evening and day tomorrow.